One thing that I have discovered (especially this past year) is that when you lose someone special to you there are two ways to view it. One is positively and one is negatively. I choose to view it in a positive way. My daughter was very close to her grandfather (my husband's father) and he passed away back in 2005. Just this past January we lost my mother-in-law (my husband's mother). My daughter had gotten particularly close to her because her other grandmother lives back in Maryland. When she passed away it was really hard on my daughter. She is still actively mourning her grandfather and it's been difficult to comfort her and know just the right words to say. One thing I heard recently is that when someone passes away one of the worst things you can say is, "I know how you feel." Unless you have been in someone's shoes you really don't know. The best words that I have found to comfort her and others that I know that are grieving a loved one is to say, "I feel blessed to have known her/him." I have told that to more than one person that has lost someone special and I like to hope at least that I have brought them some comfort even if it is just a little. I have told my husband more than once that I feel blessed to have known his mom. I know that he misses her too. He doesn't really talk about it very much, but I know that he does. When I am really missing a loved one I even tell myself that I feel blessed to have known them. Life brings us many things happy and sad, choose to look at the brighter side, even when it seems there isn't one and remember there is always tomorrow!
We are heading towards 600 orders for Dominic's business. Since our long-term goal for Baked Goods By Dominic is having a "brick-and-mortar" and hire those with disabilities, it is essential and imperative that I continue to teach him all parts of the business. Since I prompted Dominic for so many years for speech, he has become "prompt dependent." What that essentially means is that he will look at me for a prompt, like, "what do you do next?" I do that one a lot. Dominic has been going to a private speech therapist for over ten years and she reminds me often that Dominic usually will know the answer, if I am patient and wait for him. That has been a very hard habit to break! Dominic has an incredible memory, so I put it to the test this morning. I didn't write out the steps, I wanted to see how much he could do completely on his own. We have a customer picking up his order today, but the only thing that had been done is putting the cookies into t...
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