I think anyone can relate that when you live in a house with at least one other person, it is nice once in a while to have a little time to yourself. My special time for a while has been Sunday mornings. I walk 5 days a week, most of the time at 6 a.m. with a special friend who I feel so blessed to have met. So, on the weekends, my body still thinks it's time to get up early. I go outside, get the paper, whip up some coffee and usually go on the computer and check e-mails and yes, go on Facebook. This morning, I was chatting with one of my hubby's buddies from Ohio. Quite a few of his friends are on Facebook, but my hubby does not want to go on, so I talk to his friends. His friend and I talked for a while and then he needed to go. Granted, this was all before 7 a.m.! I find that the early morning, especially on Sunday's help prepare you for the coming week. My "baby" starts 10th grade this week, so I know it will be a busy week gearing up for getting her up "early" for school. Remember to always find at least a few moments to yourself every day!
When Dominic was diagnosed with Autism at 2 1/2, I went to our local library and took out every book I could find about Autism. Sometimes I would bring back 20 books. This was 2006, so a lot of the information was very "dated." I guess I was looking for a book that would tell me what I should do next, like a "manual." Autism doesn't quite work that way! The saying is, " if you know one person with Autism, you know one person with Autism." Every mom to an individual with Autism follows their own "path." I think as moms, we judge ourselves much harder than anyone else does. I was 41 when I had Dominic. Did he get the diagnosis of Autism because I was an older mom? because I drank a lot of pop? I could sit and think about that every minute of every day. I am pretty integrated into the Autism community around Lansing and have told more than one person that it took me about two weeks to come to terms with Dominic's diagnosis. It is so incredib...
I'm an early bird too and love those early hours when everyone else is in bed. See you on FB!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree. It really helps to have some time to collect your thoughts. I just need to remember to do this at work more often too...
ReplyDeleteI still love getting up before everyone else and have "my" time!
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