Hard to believe, but Thanksgiving is almost here. It kind of bums me out that the day after Halloween all the Christmas and holiday decorations start coming out full tilt! What about Thanksgiving?? It kind of seems like the forgotten holiday because it's wedged in between Halloween and Christmas. Thanksgiving is a time for giving thanks for all that you have. When you don't have a lot, it's sometimes hard to find something to be thankful for. When you have a lot, it's easy to forget to be thankful for what you have. One of the many things I am thankful for this Thanksgiving is the incredible opportunity I have been given by MomsEveryday.com. There are so many "mom" websites out there in the Blogosphere. I have found their website to always be positive, encouraging and nurturing. I am thankful for my loving family and friends. This will be our first Thanksgiving without my mother-in-law. I know that it will be difficult, especially for my husband, but we will make it through just fine. It would be easy to over focus on the fact that she is not with us. I choose not to do that. In our family, we talk about the special memories of our loved ones that have passed on. I love that I have this blog to be able to share some of the many memories I have of my mother-in-law. As we head towards Thanksgiving take a few moments to think of one good thing you can be thankful for, I know I will be!
When Dominic was diagnosed with Autism at 2 1/2, I went to our local library and took out every book I could find about Autism. Sometimes I would bring back 20 books. This was 2006, so a lot of the information was very "dated." I guess I was looking for a book that would tell me what I should do next, like a "manual." Autism doesn't quite work that way! The saying is, " if you know one person with Autism, you know one person with Autism." Every mom to an individual with Autism follows their own "path." I think as moms, we judge ourselves much harder than anyone else does. I was 41 when I had Dominic. Did he get the diagnosis of Autism because I was an older mom? because I drank a lot of pop? I could sit and think about that every minute of every day. I am pretty integrated into the Autism community around Lansing and have told more than one person that it took me about two weeks to come to terms with Dominic's diagnosis. It is so incredib...
We all have the blessings of knowing dear ones who have passed and in their honor remembering them at this special holiday is a must. Happy Remembering/Thanksgiving Day. Penny
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