It seems like whenever I run into any of my friends who also have juniors
in high school, within five minutes, the talk turns to college. Now
that Lauren is past the halfway point of her junior year, it was about
time to get some college tours set up. I have several friends
that have kids in college already and my stepson has gone through
college and graduate school, so I have some idea what it's like having a
kid heading to college. Lauren wants to visit two colleges over the
upcoming spring break. Getting the tours scheduled was pretty easy - it
was completely done on-line. Yesterday, I bumped into a friend of mine
at the grocery store who has a son that is also a junior. Of course,
within less than five minutes we were talking about colleges :) I got the impression that her son prefers a smaller college, Lauren is thinking of a big school.
That's the great thing about colleges. They come in all different
sizes. Kind of like Goldilocks and the Three Bears story. Some are too
small, some are too big and one will be just right! One of the tours
Lauren is going on includes the parents. The other one is all day (with no parents) and you "shadow" a current student. You get to eat in the dining
hall, sit in on a class, etc. I can only remember going on one college
tour to York College of Pennsylvania. Even though I never went on a
college tour to Eastern Kentucky University in Richmond, Kentucky, I
ended up going there, but I only lasted one semester. I was way too
homesick and came back home!! I ended up going to the local community
college and then to the night school at the University of Maryland. I'm excited for Lauren as
she embarks on this new stage in her life. I'm confident that she will
know which college will be the best "fit" for her.
When Dominic was diagnosed with Autism at 2 1/2, I went to our local library and took out every book I could find about Autism. Sometimes I would bring back 20 books. This was 2006, so a lot of the information was very "dated." I guess I was looking for a book that would tell me what I should do next, like a "manual." Autism doesn't quite work that way! The saying is, " if you know one person with Autism, you know one person with Autism." Every mom to an individual with Autism follows their own "path." I think as moms, we judge ourselves much harder than anyone else does. I was 41 when I had Dominic. Did he get the diagnosis of Autism because I was an older mom? because I drank a lot of pop? I could sit and think about that every minute of every day. I am pretty integrated into the Autism community around Lansing and have told more than one person that it took me about two weeks to come to terms with Dominic's diagnosis. It is so incredib...
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