I was thinking the other day about an old friend of Lauren's that she used to have frequent play dates with. This little girl would run full blast through the rooms of our house. When she would visit, I would have to gently remind her no running was allowed inside our house. It was one of our "rules." Maybe she was allowed to run at her own house and thought it was okay here. Different house, different rules. When you're a guest in another family's home, you follow that family's rules. In some families there is no set bedtime, others have very strict bedtimes. I think having a set bedtime for the school year is a good rule, kids crave routine. Some families only eat their meals at the kitchen table, others eat wherever! A major rule when I was growing up was no television or radio could be on during mealtimes. The hubby grew up in a household where the television or radio was always on!! That took some getting used to when we would visit the in-laws. They had their radio on the kitchen table :) I haven't gone as far as typing up a list of rules, laminating and posting it, but if that works for your family, I say go for it!!
When Dominic was diagnosed with Autism at 2 1/2, I went to our local library and took out every book I could find about Autism. Sometimes I would bring back 20 books. This was 2006, so a lot of the information was very "dated." I guess I was looking for a book that would tell me what I should do next, like a "manual." Autism doesn't quite work that way! The saying is, " if you know one person with Autism, you know one person with Autism." Every mom to an individual with Autism follows their own "path." I think as moms, we judge ourselves much harder than anyone else does. I was 41 when I had Dominic. Did he get the diagnosis of Autism because I was an older mom? because I drank a lot of pop? I could sit and think about that every minute of every day. I am pretty integrated into the Autism community around Lansing and have told more than one person that it took me about two weeks to come to terms with Dominic's diagnosis. It is so incredib...
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