I was thinking the other day about an old friend of Lauren's that she used to have frequent play dates with. This little girl would run full blast through the rooms of our house. When she would visit, I would have to gently remind her no running was allowed inside our house. It was one of our "rules." Maybe she was allowed to run at her own house and thought it was okay here. Different house, different rules. When you're a guest in another family's home, you follow that family's rules. In some families there is no set bedtime, others have very strict bedtimes. I think having a set bedtime for the school year is a good rule, kids crave routine. Some families only eat their meals at the kitchen table, others eat wherever! A major rule when I was growing up was no television or radio could be on during mealtimes. The hubby grew up in a household where the television or radio was always on!! That took some getting used to when we would visit the in-laws. They had their radio on the kitchen table :) I haven't gone as far as typing up a list of rules, laminating and posting it, but if that works for your family, I say go for it!!
We are heading towards 600 orders for Dominic's business. Since our long-term goal for Baked Goods By Dominic is having a "brick-and-mortar" and hire those with disabilities, it is essential and imperative that I continue to teach him all parts of the business. Since I prompted Dominic for so many years for speech, he has become "prompt dependent." What that essentially means is that he will look at me for a prompt, like, "what do you do next?" I do that one a lot. Dominic has been going to a private speech therapist for over ten years and she reminds me often that Dominic usually will know the answer, if I am patient and wait for him. That has been a very hard habit to break! Dominic has an incredible memory, so I put it to the test this morning. I didn't write out the steps, I wanted to see how much he could do completely on his own. We have a customer picking up his order today, but the only thing that had been done is putting the cookies into t...
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